About Us

We Found Love Online — And Built a Business Around It

Hi, we're Joe and Teresa, the founders of Dating With Borders! We met on the dating app Hinge so we know firsthand how overwhelming, confusing, and downright exhausting online dating can be. We also know what it’s like to find something real through the noise — to cross digital and cultural borders to build a relationship that lasts.

When we matched, we were living in different cities, in different countries, came from different cultures, and had both just about given up on dating apps. But through honest conversation, intentional effort, and a little guidance along the way, we turned a swipe into something serious. Now, we help others do the same.

Joe Wilcox

Teresa Schiavone

Why We Started Dating With Borders

We created Dating With Borders because we saw a gap — not just in how people use dating apps, but in how they prepare for and build healthy relationships. Dating today isn’t just about swiping. It’s about storytelling, communication, and emotional strategy.

We wanted to offer something better

A place where people could get help with their profiles without losing their authenticity A service where messaging actually led to meaningful connections A path to find real, relationship-minded people — not just more matches

What We Believe Love is borderless — emotionally, culturally, and geographically You deserve more than just a well-lit photo and a good opener With the right tools and support, online dating can lead to something real Great relationships don’t just happen — they’re built with intention.

Why We Do This

We started Dating With Borders to help other people skip the stress and fast-track their way to real connections. Dating can be overwhelming so why should you have to spend hours writing profiles, guessing what to say, or sorting through hundreds of matches who don’t align with what you want, when we can do that for you.

We believe in dating with intention, with fun, and with the kind of support that makes the process feel less like a chore or a job—and more like an adventure.  We get to know you so that we can help find someone who truly gets you too!

Why Choose Us?

Culturally intelligent dating experts

Personalized, human-led matchmaking

Hands-on support with dating apps

Fully confidential and discreet

Designed for serious daters, professionals, & global citizens

We’re Here to Help You...
Tell your story with confidence.
Navigate modern dating with less stress

Build meaningful, long-term connection — wherever (and whoever) it may be If you’re ready to stop swiping and start connecting, we’d love to help.  

How We Do It

Dating apps aren’t a “one-size-fits-all” thing. We customize everything for YOU. Here’s what you can expect:

We Get to Know You

No cookie-cutter solutions here. We take the time to understand your personality, values, and what you’re actually looking for in a partner.

A Personalized Approach

Whether we’re reworking your dating profile, guiding your messages, or helping you prep for that first date, everything is tailored to you.

Smooth, Stress-Free Experience

We take the stress out of online dating by handling the tough stuff like writing profiles, managing messages, and offering expert advice. You just show up and be yourself.

What Makes Us Different

We’ve Been There (for many years and in different stages of our life)

We didn’t just study this stuff, we lived it. We are our own success story.

It’s Personal

Every profile, every message, every coaching session is crafted with care, no cookie-cutter templates here.

We’re All In

Whether you want a little help or the full concierge experience, we’re here to guide, support, and cheer you on.  Joe’s the ultimate online dating wingman and Teresa’s your favourite online dating BFF!

Our Mission? Love That Feels Like You!

Whether you're looking for a deep connection, a fresh start, or just someone who gets you and your humor—we want to help you find them. Because we believe the right person is out there. Sometimes you may just need a little help getting through all the noise.

Let’s find your person. You deserve that story too.

Your Story
Could Be Next

Whether you’re ghosted out, swiped-out, or just over it—we’ve helped people in your shoes find connection, clarity, and confidence. And we’d love to help you too.

Book your free consult
and let’s write your love story next.